What if dating after divorce wasn’t about rushing into the next relationship, but about rediscovering yourself first?
In this episode, we explore the concept of a personal “Rumspringa” phase—a season of intentional self-reflection, growth, and connection after the end of a long-term marriage. Drawing from clinical insight and lived experience, we unpack 12 “Rumspringa Rules” for dating with integrity, boundaries, faith, and emotional health.
You’ll learn:
- Why honesty about your intentions protects both you and others
- How to embrace “reason, season, or lifetime” relationships
- The power of non-attachment and healthy boundaries
- Why ice cream might be better than alcohol on a first date
- How to handle ghosting, rejection, and emotional hurt
- The importance of enjoying your own company before re-coupling
- What it means to surrender to how life unfolds
This conversation is especially meaningful for those navigating divorce, grief, dating in the digital age, or rediscovering identity after a major life transition. We also reflect on faith, emotional archeology, recovery principles, and how each person leaves an imprint on our lives.
At Kenosis, we believe counseling isn’t about getting your old life back—it’s about creating something new and fuller. If you’re in a season of change, this episode will encourage you to date (or pause dating) with wisdom, courage, and self-awareness.